Hello people! & mabel's here to blog for Selwyn
the dumb.According to my darling, he's bored in the hospital. So...Ward 47 Bed 5. You guys know what to do right?(:
Take care and.. hope to see you?(:
When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place at the right time, that's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling.
If you decide to love a person, even with his faults, that's not a chance. That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice.Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same, that's choice.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance.
But true love that lasts is truly a choice.A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about this: " Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen."
We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love...BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly...
and I love you so much darling. I really do. Thanks for being so understanding all the time and sorry I'm not as understanding as you would want me to be. But no matter whatever has change , I love you.
Haiya! Why my girlfriend asking me to update all the time! It's not like got people reading this blog. :( But well.. Updates on my life . Going on pretty well. Had an AMAZING 6th month celebration together with my girlfriend yesterday.
Things been going on pretty fine. Maybe for one or two days where things start fucking up. But these days don't usually stay for long. Not as long as they did in the past. Heh.
This post is just an update and to say , I love you darling. :)